Let’s Talk About Sex: Reflections on World Contraception Day and Our First Teen Class

Let’s Talk about Sex

World Contraception Day

September 26, 2015

Post written by Rizza Paray

World Contraception Day was a day Alay Foundation set aside to meet with teenage students for our “Let’s Talk About Sex” educational class and workshop that covered a wide range of topics related to sexual and reproductive health and rights specifically suited for a youth audience.  From healthy relationships and birth control to sexually transmitted diseases and dating violence, Alay staff and contributors brought these topics to life through our interactive educational outreach programming.  On World Contraception Day we hosted our first-ever class geared toward and for youth.  More than 60 students from the Institute of Enterprise Solutions gathered at Plaza Leonor in San Jose City, Nueva Ecija to participate in a lecture, role playing exercises, and a quiz show game.

My contribution that day was to give a lecture and then lead the discussion on healthy and unhealthy relationships and dating violence.  At first I was nervous but just thinking about girls who suffer from violence gave me the courage to stand in front of the class to raise the discussion.

I feel very fortunate to be part of something so important because I believe this kind of class can be a way of ending intimate partner violence.  The students now will have knowledge of what dating violence is in a relationship and that knowledge will give them greater wisdom and confidence in choosing a partner, in choosing their relationships, and it’s something they can definitely share with others.  Our youth community benefits from this discussion on many levels in terms of open access to information on sexual and reproductive health and rights, respect for self and others, and improved public health and economies.

After discussing relationships, students actively participated in role playing activities relating to what we covered.  Participants had 10 minutes of preparation after which they presented their skits in front of the class.   The role playing was very popular with both the participants and the audience.

One of our guest speakers was a Philippine Red Cross representative who presented on the importance of donating blood.  It is my hope that the students will have the courage to donate blood in the future.  For every one donation up to three lives are saved.  After interacting with the students I feel each of them is a hero in the making and that they will be the ones to save lives in the future!

Following the Red Cross presentation we were joined by Ms. Grace Mansilla, R.N., a professional registered midwife who delivered the lecture on sexual and reproductive health and rights.  The students learned about family planning and preventing STDs.  Ms. Grace also got the students involved with a condom demonstration game where students practiced the proper way of putting on a condom which is the best method for preventing STDs.  Everyone enjoyed trying to get it right!

At the end of Ms. Grace’s discussion we then played a version of the popular American game show, “Jeopardy.”  The quiz show brought all the day’s learning together as the students competed with their knowledge to out-best each other in answering tough questions all related to their sexual and reproductive health and rights.  All the questions were answered correctly which can only mean that the students truly listened to what we discussed in the lectures and activities that day.  All the winners and participants received prizes for their efforts!

I believe that Alay Foundation’s program connected with the students on a very real level and I look forward to working with youths about their sexual and reproductive health and rights in the future.  It seemed to me that the youth are in transition from one period in their lives to another and are filled with questions that need answers.  Human sexuality is complex and information and resources deserve to be made accessible to young people.  We will be reaching out to other youth populations in our area.  If you are a teacher or educator in San Jose City, Nueva Ecija and would like for Alay Foundation to come speak with your students about human sexuality  and reproductive health issues facing them , please contact our office at +63-917-726-5362.